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Women’s emotional labor in a family

3/3/2015

 
Emotional work, emotional labor, invisible work, mental burden - all these concepts are familiar to most women firsthand. They include anything that is vaguely characterized by the phrase “keep the hearth” and is rarely considered real work.
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Historically, it is believed that the responsibility of maintaining order in the house, organizing the life of the family, and moral support for all its members is an exclusively female task. However, in the modern world, this state of affairs is no longer considered the norm - emotional labor and a million small, imperceptible, but obligatory matters are now discussed and shared between partners.
What is the concept of "Emotional Labor"?
"Emotional Labor" means emotional work within the family. In the family, women often do the bulk of the work when it comes to looking after the health and wellbeing of loved ones. Of course, there are also men who:
  • care for sick relatives
  • sit by the bed if that Child is sick
  • about the household To take care of
  • Organize errands and appointments for the children
  • And always one open ear for the worries of children, partners, and parents.
That's a positive trend. But these men are statistically vastly outnumbered. According to this study. Three times more women than men do most of the family's emotional work.

Below are just a few examples of attitudes prevailing in society, according to which women in certain situations are expected to perform emotional labor - without any reward or recognition of the significance of this work.

Women are asked to look after, entertain and care for younger siblings, cousins, and other children much more often than men because women are assumed to love children and are naturally more caring.

Women are more severely judged and condemned for their lack of social skills, criticized for lack of empathy and emotional exclusion, coldness, so women have to make more efforts to meet social norms and other people's expectations in social interaction.

Women are much more often condemned for swearing, talking about sex, and other "vulgar" things that are easily forgiven to men.
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If a woman does not put her children and taking care of them above all else, does not want to fully devote herself to motherhood and considers children the most important in her life, society makes her think that something is wrong with her.

Double burden means stress
One job to have and to take care of the children and husband on the side, at the same time to look pretty and always in a good mood to be is difficult. The double burden often means stress for many women. And this has a negative impact on female health. Studies demonstrate that women are diagnosed with depression or anxiety disorders more often than men.

Summary
Women’s are emotional labor in a family. In most families, women are engaged in stereotypical "mom's" chores - cooking, cleaning, and buying food, while dads "mow the lawns" and pay bills. Women are therapists, nurses, and managers of their families. We want to say thank you to them for that.

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